TEAMS REJUVENATE, REPAIR FANS’ SPIRIT
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Florida Times-Union – Mark Woods – The name was there when he bought the dealership. But he was more than happy to keep it. He’s been a University of Florida football fan since he was growing up in Jacksonville in the 1960s.

You could say he’s been a fan through good times and bad times. And you could be talking about the past year alone – good times for the Gators, challenging times for Gator Chrysler.

That’s part of why this football season – and what will happen tonight at Dolphin Stadium – has been a memorable one for Gators fans.

It’s not just that Florida will play Oklahoma for college football’s national title. It’s the backdrop for the season, the days surrounding the Saturdays.

“We’re all looking for that bright light every day, especially in the car business,” Kelly said. “And we have a lot of Gator fans here. So it gives us something upbeat to talk about at work.”

There are, of course, more important things than sports. Nobody needs a reminder of that, especially after 2008. The year was a big bailout-sized reminder, crammed so full of talk about serious issues that sports seemed even more trivial.

And yet, somehow sports also seemed more cherished.

The Super Bowl produced record ratings, drawing an average of 97.5 million viewers – more than watched coverage of the presidential election night. More than 211 million Americans watched the Beijing Olympics. And on a Friday night in August, typically a tough time to attract viewers, the Games’ tape-delayed opening ceremonies had 34.2 million Americans in front of their TV sets.

Now this. The BCS game. Times might be tough, but you wouldn’t know it from the way Gators and Sooners fans gobbled up their allotted 16,000 tickets and made the trek to South Florida.

“We were coming, even if we had to eat peanut-butter-and-jelly sandwiches and sleep on the beach,” said Jason Johnson, a 43-year-old Sooners fan from Oklahoma City.

Howard Jacobs, a Gators fan from Knoxville, Tenn., traveled to eight games this season. He was hanging out Wednesday at a cafe on South Beach, looking forward to the ninth.

“I gave up a few things,” he said of following the Gators this season. “I sold my bass boat and my truck. I gave up one toy to do something else.”

All of this probably shouldn’t come as a surprise. Go back to the Great Depression, to a time when a nation turned its lonely eyes to Joe DiMaggio, Joe Louis and Seabiscuit.

“In 1938, near the end of a decade of monumental turmoil, the year’s number-one newsmaker was not Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Hitler, or Mussolini,” Laura Hillenbrand wrote in her book, Seabiscuit: An American Legend. “The subject of the most newspaper column inches in 1938 wasn’t even a person. It was an undersized, crooked-legged racehorse named Seabiscuit.”

When Seabiscuit raced War Admiral, trains full of fans came from all over the country and an estimated 40 million people listened on the radio.

That’s not to say that Tim Tebow or Sam Bradford – the two Heisman-winning quarterbacks playing in tonight’s game – are the modern-day version of Seabiscuit. But they certainly are modern-day diversions.

Talk to a man named Gator Bray, 60. That’s his real first name. Gator. He lives in Margate, in northwest Broward County. And, yes, he’s a Gators fan.

Ask Gator about football and what it means in these times and he brings up the past. He talks about how, once upon a time, people went to the movies for a diversion. But now, he says, going to the theater is expensive. So people watch sports at home. They invite friends and family.

“That room will be packed for the game,” he said, pointing to his living room.

And that scene will be repeated in living rooms all over Florida, Oklahoma and beyond.

Take an hour drive away from Dolphin Stadium, west to the sugarcane fields near Lake Okeechobee. There are few poorer places in America than Belle Glade (population 15,000). There also are few places more passionate about football. Dozens of local players, including former Gator and current Jaguar Fred Taylor, have ended up playing in the NFL.

Talk to some kids playing a pick-up basketball game. You don’t even have to ask them if they’ll watch the game tonight. The whole town of Belle Glade will be watching. They might not be rooting for the Gators – even if receiver Deonte Thompson is from Belle Glade – but they will be watching.

“Football is big here,” Keavon Staples, 17, says in the understatement of the week.

Call up a sports psychologist who lives on the other side of Palm Beach County. Ask John Murray about where sports fit into America during tough economic times.

“We need an outlet,” he says. “People want to escape. And one way to do that is to be a fan for three hours.”

With that in mind, he doesn’t say people need to keep sports in perspective. To the contrary, he suggests that fans embrace the craziness.

Of course, doing so opens the door for a potential letdown. And if the Gators lose tonight, Murray says, it will hit fans even harder than usual – and he’s not just speaking from a detached perspective.

He went to UF – got three degrees there – and now owns a Tim Tebow jersey.

Being a fan, he says with a laugh, isn’t completely rational. But that’s OK. There’s enough reality in real life.

“And I think it’s only going to get worse,” he says.

Maybe so. But Kelly, the Gator Chrysler dealership owner, hopes that 2009 begins the same way 2008 ended. Partly because the dealership had its best month of the year in December – and partly because the Gators beat then-No. 1 Alabama to earn a spot in tonight’s game.

In tough times, try fun and games
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Newsday – John Jeansonne – Just what we need: Permission to burrow even farther into a fantasyland of fun and games while the real world falls apart. Wars are raging, chislers and swindlers are roaming the earth, providing an extra kick in the pants to the honest thousands losing their jobs to a squeamish economy, yet the message from John Murray is to stop worrying and take in a ball game.

Murray, the Florida-based psychologist who has dealt with all professional sports and the elite athletes who people them, offers five activities to cope with the stress pounding John Q. Citizen these dark days: Read, attend a workshop, join a group, visit a museum or …

“Become an even more frivolous sports fan.”

This is opposite — “and more positive,” Murray said — than the reaction being voiced by those fans suggesting that the entire professional sports enterprise, with its enormous player salaries and free-spending teams, deserves to go belly up.

“That’s like, ‘I’m suffering so you should be, too,’ ” Murray said. “That’s jealousy. That’s envy, and envy is one of the seven sins. I don’t want to get too religious here, but if you experience envy, you not only lust after what somebody else has, but wish they didn’t have it, either. We know that’s not good.”

Better — and healthier, he added — to take the escape route. “What we experience vicariously as a fan can be even more prominent in times of stress,” he said. “We need to balance the amount of economic stress we’re feeling, and what’s more distracting, in a positive way, than painting our face and acting like an idiot for a few hours?”

It is the latest lesson in the study of sports anthropology — “Proof,” Murray said, “how important a role sports plays in our society.” It reflects an observation in Tuesday’s Columbia Journalism Review essay by Gary Andrew Poole, considering the disappearance of good sports writing in an age of blogs and BlackBerry posts, that to “go to any major sporting event and you’ll see that the importance of sports to our culture is obvious; they are part of people’s dreams, of how they define themselves.”

Poole argued against “those who think the mission [of sports sections] is more fun than consequential.”

Murray, when he attended last weekend’s Miami Dolphins playoff game, found the crowds larger than usual, though Florida is among the states suffering the most in the economic downturn. “Everybody is broke and shops are closing up,” Murray said, “But people still spend money on alcohol and cigarettes. They’ll keep paying the Direct TV bills to get the next games.

“When you’re struggling, when you’re lacking something, this fills that gap. When reality sucks, fantasy becomes more important. It’s one form of denial, or escape, but a positive escape, as long as you don’t gamble away the money you do have on it.”

History shows that the sports and entertainment industries fare inordinately well in dire economic times. Beyond the anesthesizing effect of fandom, blotting out their own real-world discomfort, fans are able to accept the outrageous salaries paid star athletes, sports economist Andrew Zimbalist recently noted, because it “makes superheroes a little more superhuman. That’s part of the allure of sports.”

So stop worrying and take in a ball game. Murray’s attitude is: “There always will be some people who have money to purchase things, like a ball team, even when the rest are suffering. If they’re doing it for my pleasure, great.”

Get in touch with your inner frivolity.

Seattle Post Intelligencer – Jim Moore – THE GREAT PHILOSOPHER Rick Neuheisel once said: “Tough times don’t last. Tough people do.”

But if you live here, the times are tough and the teams are terrible. If you see an end in sight, let us know.

It could be worse — if the Sonics were still in town, they would be 6-33, and everyone would be griping about them, too.

Someone forgot to tell one shop owner at Bellevue Square the team moved to Oklahoma City — at this particular store, according to my well-placed source, they were selling 2009 Sonics calendars over the holidays. Wonder if they had Pilots calendars, too.

Dr. John F. Murray, a sports and clinical psychologist based in Miami, feels for us. When there’s a recession and a city’s teams are bad, it’s a “double whammy,” Murray said.

Typically a source of civic pride, the Seahawks picked the wrong year to go 4-12.

“It softens the blow when a team goes to the playoffs,” Murray said.

If they’re struggling to find work or pay bills, fans need their teams more than ever.

“They’re going to need to build their self-esteem through the reflected glory,” Murray said. “If you’re a fan, you’re going to become more of a fan. You’re going to engage in even more fantasy.”

His perception appears to be the reality based on a sampling of Seahawks fans at the team’s final home game Dec. 21. I stopped by two pregame tailgates.

The random survey yielded responses from five fans, two of whom also supplied a Coors Light and a Jell-O shot, which were gratefully received by the questioner.

Asked if it ever reached a point where he’d cut back on attending Seahawks games because of financial constraints, Sean Lee of Redmond said: “Absolutely not. It’s one of the things that’s very important to me. If I have to cut corners, this won’t become one of them.”

Lee, who on this day was dressed up as Santa, said he’ll remain a fan and will continue to buy his 16-game Mariners ticket package as well.

Felix Tiano of West Seattle said he’s been relatively unaffected by the economic downturn. The Seahawks still are his team, too.

“It’s an escape from the daily drudgery,” Tiano said. “It’s something to cheer for.”

When asked if he’d ever quit going to games, Lester Stepper of West Seattle said: “Hell no. I’ve been coming to games since the Kingdome opened. This is our thing. We live or die with our team no matter what.”

Stepper is such a big fan that he has his own 12th Man flag that has been autographed by every person who has raised the 12th Man flag at Qwest Field.

A hairdresser at London House in Burien, Stepper said beauty salons usually weather recessions, but this downturn is different.

“The beauty industry is one of the last industries to slow down, and it’s slowed down,” he said.

Stepper estimates that his costs are more than $200 per game — $40 to $50 to park, $60 to $70 for tailgate food, $20 to $25 for concessions and $75 for his ticket in section 312.

“You spend a lot of money, but you know what? We love our team,” Stepper said.

Cindy White of Mountlake Terrace said she and her husband love to tailgate but admits that they will probably cut back on attending Seahawks games if necessary.

Sports bars feel the impact, too, but John Howie, who owns SPORT restaurant in the Fisher Plaza building, said there’s a bigger factor.

“What’s really hurt us — the Mariners sucked, the Sonics are gone, and Husky football has been horrible,” Howie said. “The economic climate hasn’t hurt as much. People still want to go out and eat. But would we prefer for the economy to turn around and the Sonics to be here? You bet we would.”

I told Howie that I was headed to his bar to interview fans for this story. He jokingly said: “I hope you find some.”

At 4:30 Wednesday afternoon, I didn’t. SPORT had a big lunch crowd, but there wasn’t a single customer when I arrived. Waitress Jennifer Zink said, “It’s a slow time of day, slow time of year.”

But fans are resilient. They’ll return to SPORT to watch big games and head to Safeco and Qwest fields for their Mariners and Seahawks fixes.

“Obviously people are stressed right now,” Murray said. “The excitement of the game provides a needed break from the woes of everyday (life). Sports provides that function to society. It’s something that’s removed from reality, yet extremely real. The grand illusion of the spectacle of a Sunday afternoon … the thrill of that is a welcome relief.”

Are Sports Still Alive in this Economy?
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SPECIAL REPORT FROM DR. JOHN F MURRAY: Are Sports Still Alive in these Tough Economic Times?

It’s been one of the most exciting weeks ever for sports, especially here in Florida. The Miami Dolphins won the AFC East after a 1-15 mark last year. The Florida Gators football team grabbed its second national championships in three years, making this author and all of Gator Nation extremely proud. But is all this sports hype justified in a time when the economy is tanking, shops are closing, and people are looking desperately for work? Read on …

Newsday and the Chicago Tribune: See the article in today’s Newsday and Chicago Tribune after I had a nice talk with John Jeansonne about the need for even more frivolity in sports

Florida Times Union: Mark Woods and I engaged in a similar discussion a few days earlier and you can find it here

Irish Tennis’ On the Line: Other nations are playing even more sports and learning about sports psychology. See my new article in Ireland’s top tennis publication, “On the Line” about sports psychology for kids

Speaking Engagements: I’ve been invited to deliver more speeches than ever recently. The consensus seems to be that sports should thrive even more in times of economic downturn as it serves a vital need in society to keep our spirits up. It was a pleasure this week to speak to the Palm Beach Flager Rotary meeting about coping with stress in these tough financial times. After the speech, I received the following endorsement from Stephen Millier, and thank him greatly for the invite and the quote:

John F Murray delivered a captivating talk at the Palm Beach Flagler Rotary breakfast meeting.
In these uncertain times, Stress was the topic of the day, John covered the topic in an interactive
manner engaging the entire group and leading to a lively discussion. We hope to have John F
Murray speak to us again. Stephen Miller, Speaker Chairperson, Palm Beach Rotary, January, 2009

It was also fun to deliver separate talks this week to almost 300 golfers and 30 tennis players at the Ibis Golf and Country Club in Palm Beach Gardens. I’ll be in touch soon with those details. Keep your schedules free for our February 21 workshop in Princeton, New Jersey. Contact me for details about that half day sports psychology seminar.

In sum, sports are not only surviving … they are … well … like what Joe Dimaggio represents in the song line “where have you gone Joe Dimaggo” … what we often turn our “lonely eyes” to first in our times of greatest need.

All the Best!
John F. Murray, PhD
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Dr. Murray’s “high performance psychology” helps people in a variety of challenging situations in business, sports, academics and life. He is a best-selling author & columnist, and a frequent speaker and seminar leader. His commentary appears almost daily in the media. For example, Dr. Murray recently contributed to the Boston Globe, NY Times, LA Daily News, and Newsday, and he appeared as an expert on Fox Television, MSNBC and ABC Good Morning America.